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All my troubles are my fault?

Guys who probivajushhimsja in life on their own, it often seems that all depends on them and their desires, perseverance, and ambition. They tend to underestimate objective factors. Which helps them to do "impossible" in their youth, but further leads to eternal struggles and to rationalizations. They're looking for a reason in themselves, and they… Read more »

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Quality articles and "psychological content"-what's the difference?

Save time and honouring information hygiene. I have a slew of quality articles divided into several species. Popular science articles with descriptions of research, clarifying concepts and showing sources. Example: an anonymous survey participants American beauty contests showed almost a quarter of them are detected by an eating disorder. [Beauty is as beauty does: body… Read more »

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Need for support.

#навеяно_практикой Need for support. Many it ceased to be met in very early childhood, when the trees were tall, and the other was the granidioznym and omnipotent. What they feel in situations when in need of support? Correctly, small, weak and dependent. Therefore, the consultations to understand this need come through anger (need you hurt… Read more »

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The main condition for healing and growth

Grow from childhood injuries hurt. It hurts to accept refusal to meet with the fear of rejection, scared to ask embarrassing swear and fight, accept-as a sign of helplessness, letting go of hope as die meet condemnation-become a rag in the corner. Nobody makes just so. All this is possible only for the sake of… Read more »

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Price: grow out of guilt and resentment.

That rarely comes to people under 30. Everything has a price. Want to answer close "on otvali"-answer but know how much it will cost you. And if you have then wine or offense-the price was inadequate. Rasplačivaeš′sâ these feelings for inability to pay and receive the correct price. Psychological children accustomed to getting everything for… Read more »

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Women's self esteem and masculine look. And here mum?

You crave compliments from men, looking for their recognition, obizhaeshsja on husband or boyfriend when he doesn't notice your effort in the design of appearance, stay still in the favorable perspective on photo in social networks in anticipation of enthusiastic comments, endlessly think, as even myself better, dress, slipped up, dye, curl, mustache. This desire… Read more »

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Give him a chance to fall in love with you

Once you give him a chance to fall in love with you. Not melteshi, not run, not forsiruj event. It is slightly confused: any new feeling in the stomach. He needs to spend some time with him, he has to accept it, he needs to make sure that it is HE HIMSELF. That is not… Read more »

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Live as I want

Why are you still not doing what I want and live not in the way I want to?   As well, quickly threw the Office went to travel, earning online, describing everything in via instagram! Nu-Ka nakachala urgently priest, took up yoga, weigh 40 kg, otrastila spit to the waist, gave birth to 5 children… Read more »

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Find or what is wrong with your surroundings?

Imagine you are standing in front of the mirror, and see your reflection everywhere very clearly, but here's one piece of mirror zamutnen. And no matter how you kept circling in front of the mirror, this part of my reflection does not see. What feelings would arise? Irritation? "Foolish mirror cannot show me holistically!" anxiety?… Read more »

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Needless to say with a friend about his grudge

Needless to say a friend that his behavior hurt you? What if you're wrong, and take offense at this wrong? You have a right to your feelings, including discomfort from prying action. Recognize that it is Your discomfort may be associated with the actions of another, but no result. For example, a teacher at the… Read more »

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  • I for myself

    It is difficult to deny close assistance and psychological support. It is difficult to defend their financial or other interests. Sometimes we notice ourselves uvâzšimi in foreign relations or problems. Sometimes someone very much annoys us involvement in our lives. And then comes due. If our borders are porous, there is no place for the… Read more »

  • Resource-centered interview

    When the case is not a case where there is not enough motivation, when no strength or you come to a fork in the road and can't make a choice, a vorčlivoe creature inside you begins to scold you active. Many believe it, give up and just throw all unchecked. Meanwhile, the "thrashing" has always… Read more »

  • How the inner critic indicates our vocation

    Once upon a time I made from the book in. Reich one thought, which is really affected me: we are afraid of what actually really want, what is our strength, joy, that can become our purpose. Reich wrote about fear of orgasm, but it is spreading to other areas. Learning bodinamike I learned and saw… Read more »

  • Personal growth training. Inner critic "

    There are inside such internal character who forever shamed, criticizes and assures that nothing happens. Listening to him, we: afraid to start new, to request that we need self-belief, have low self-esteem and afraid to learn something, not to hear his ranâŝih comments. And wants to implement his plan in the works, build a career,… Read more »

  • Psychology of your body

    I pretty much know about my body. And you? If I had pain in my heart, I am offended by someone. The feeling in the heart of the sdavlennosti pass, if I understand with the offense. I know that if my right shoulder naprâglos′, then you need to move away from man because his behaviour… Read more »

  • About my clients

    For access to a psychologist?   I am sometimes asked, who are these people that come to me for advice. The answer for me is simple and inspiring.   Come to me more often insurgents and revolutionaries.   No, it's not political activists. These are people changing the fabric of their family, the sort of… Read more »

  • "I know better how you live" Thoughts about respect

    Respect is when we have not even thought of occurs, that person should be different, change our view. All of these: "be easy", "smile", "you when you get married?", "don't be such a …", "you too."-it's not all about the desire to help, it's all too often translates into words: "you're me now personally inconvenient… Read more »

  • Live as we move

    Psychologist on the run   Run along the promenade, mentally I think: "one, two, three, four"-the two accounts on two-breath exhale, cheerful music player, comfortable beautiful sneakers, a pleasant morning frost.  Run, habitually noting where in my body tension, what muscles are "blocked" from running. This professional habit of psychologists working in physically-oriented approach-to be… Read more »

  • Attention as a vital energy: why and how

    The University psychologists talk about attention, how about a boring thing, thanks to which the pervoklaška can look at the Board, and with which children are problems and even her deficit syndrome. And that's all. Other people generally nowhere to tell about the attention, and it is such a useful thing! Now I will tell… Read more »

  • Tales of power (part 1)

    The past few months have raised quite acute in my life, and then in professional practice the theme of power. Advice I'm working a lot with men that lies in this plane.   This is a difficult subject, lifting tons of anger, fear and shame, because she always appears together with the subject's own weakness…. Read more »