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Stage experience trauma "Why me?"

In experiencing the effects of psychological trauma is such a moment, which I myself call "elucidation of the relationship with God".   This is when a person asks the question "why did this happen with me?". Replying to him, people choose most often one of the following options: 1) it's because I'm wrong (shame) and… Read more »

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Helplessness adults

Often people experience unexplained anxiety or even the fear of ordinary at first glance things: to call someone on the phone, ask a favor, to go somewhere or do step in convergence with the other person.  These fears often worth negative experience: ridiculed for request, rude treatment by phone, offended, dropped out.   Every time… Read more »

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What is a grievance?

What is a grievance? Defending himself and manipulation   As a child I didn't understand the saying, "The offended water carry". It seemed to me that the offended need to spare, and not to exploit. Many adults and now hold the same opinion, and therefore remain vodovozami. Resentment corrodes from within does not give calmly… Read more »