#навеяно_практикой Need for support. Many it ceased to be met in very early childhood, when the trees were tall, and the other was the granidioznym and omnipotent. What they feel in situations when in need of support? Correctly, small, weak and dependent. Therefore, the consultations to understand this need come through anger (need you hurt… Read more »
When people cannot care for themselves, they share household responsibilities: it is him, he Pats shirt kopm cleans. And altruistically type: "Wow, all in the family" And when one does not perform such duties, the other turns out to be deprived of something very important for him. He grudges, vpadanie sacrifice, guilt manipulation. The first… Read more »
Success as compensation for lost love ceases to motivate when people learned to love himself. And then there are two ways: to score this or use the most success in the pursuit of it skills for what you really want. For example, to make as much money as you want to grow in an interesting… Read more »
Method of treatment of their desires is laid under the age of 8 months, and then we follow the selected modes of life, not realizing, betraying or incarnating your desires. Come for the understanding and change their ways!
When a child is denied the right to desire, he himself is right too does not assign even when matures. And if the child still and logical and annoying explained why he had no such right, the adult life stage of the emergence of desire generally will pass him by awareness.
To me for advice often come people who don't know what they want. Most often, they see no problem with this, and that it is difficult for them to build relationships with others: they don't know what else to do to please men/women are still help his good-for-nothing guy/son/girlfriend/friend/mother. Just for years of training it… Read more »
Envy is often considered negative feeling and the fate of the losers. The absence of envy is credited with mature and harmonious personalities. I believe that is the envy of timid love to yourself. I though there are reasons of professional and personal experience. With envy in different areas of life I've experienced or now… Read more »