Guys who probivajushhimsja in life on their own, it often seems that all depends on them and their desires, perseverance, and ambition. They tend to underestimate objective factors. Which helps them to do "impossible" in their youth, but further leads to eternal struggles and to rationalizations. They're looking for a reason in themselves, and they… Read more »
The internal confrontation with parents of adult children is exhausted. Even if they have long understood that their lives are responsible for themselves, make decisions without thinking about mom and dad. They do differently, but under the yoke of parental disapproval, spoken or shown constantly, they be still tough. This delayed attention to permanent condition… Read more »
There is another special mechanism of anger, inadequate situation-screwing on yourself. This argument when we go so far as to begin to get angry. And this disc can twist eternally! Sometimes we twist it out of habit, sometimes because the real cause of the anger cannot recognize, she sits deep inside and pushes at the… Read more »
Power locked fault For the first time, the child begins to feel his personal power during the period from 2 to 4 years. In these years he throws items, "who runs forward, trying to lift heavy bags" help my mother "as well as he has shown stubbornness, loud screams, fights, bite-tries and proves, explores its… Read more »
Once upon a time I made from the book in. Reich one thought, which is really affected me: we are afraid of what actually really want, what is our strength, joy, that can become our purpose. Reich wrote about fear of orgasm, but it is spreading to other areas. Learning bodinamike I learned and saw… Read more »
For access to a psychologist? I am sometimes asked, who are these people that come to me for advice. The answer for me is simple and inspiring. Come to me more often insurgents and revolutionaries. No, it's not political activists. These are people changing the fabric of their family, the sort of… Read more »
The University psychologists talk about attention, how about a boring thing, thanks to which the pervoklaška can look at the Board, and with which children are problems and even her deficit syndrome. And that's all. Other people generally nowhere to tell about the attention, and it is such a useful thing! Now I will tell… Read more »
The past few months have raised quite acute in my life, and then in professional practice the theme of power. Advice I'm working a lot with men that lies in this plane. This is a difficult subject, lifting tons of anger, fear and shame, because she always appears together with the subject's own weakness…. Read more »
