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Psychosomatics: push off from the bottom

Disease-bottom, from which we start. And do it only if you scary. Then we can only grow: take responsibility, recognize the feelings, repressed desires.   Until then, we're playing a game: will obstinately and childish demand attention/relaxing/compassion/acceptance through an illness until she will recall the death of individually with terrible symptoms.   I cough scares,… Read more »

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Guilt and shadow: growing up tools

We know ourselves, and in many respects and not want to know. Don't want to know yourself with "disabilities": meločnost′û, ègoističnost′û, anger, envy … And the more we reject yourself-"wrong", the more these unrecognized our features (shadow) affect our behavior and well-being. Rejecting and not noticing these symptoms, we do not become white and fluffy,… Read more »

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The realization of desires

When a child is denied the right to desire, he himself is right too does not assign even when matures. And if the child still and logical and annoying explained why he had no such right, the adult life stage of the emergence of desire generally will pass him by awareness. 

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Who keeps parents us or we parents

  When you care about parents, it is important to distinguish between: -they don't really can take care of yourself and yourself believe that need your help. Or -so you depend on them emotionally, you're easier to take on the removal of any of their domestic and mental discomfort, only it is rather stopped and… Read more »

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Frustration need for relationships

Why happy love important experience clashes with ideal and disappointment? Post promised continued) in General, well when this ideal is acting Dad for girls or mom for boys aged three years. Well, when parents have enough maturity to take the emerging sexuality of the child, but be firm that implement its child better in relationships… Read more »

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Why love evil?

Disappointed and hurt in the short term unprofitable. The problem is that we become disenchanted in the other, we have to be disappointed and in itself: you're no longer the wife of the Decembrist, which follows the difficult plight of the husband and the girl, which connected their lives with psevdofilosofom and an alcoholic. You're… Read more »

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Abandoned nests and/or meeting with a

Me 55 years, I wake up in the middle of the night from the tension in the entire body, my hands the authoriites had a quilt, I want them to withhold something, to call someone for help, but already some … And here's me meets the solitude. Only now I can make out his features…. Read more »

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Three steps residence envy

Envy is often considered negative feeling and the fate of the losers. The absence of envy is credited with mature and harmonious personalities. I believe that is the envy of timid love to yourself. I though there are reasons of professional and personal experience. With envy in different areas of life I've experienced or now… Read more »

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Live as we move

Psychologist on the run   Run along the promenade, mentally I think: "one, two, three, four"-the two accounts on two-breath exhale, cheerful music player, comfortable beautiful sneakers, a pleasant morning frost.  Run, habitually noting where in my body tension, what muscles are "blocked" from running. This professional habit of psychologists working in physically-oriented approach-to be… Read more »

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When mom is annoying

Take the mother the right to dispose of your life   There are human psychological development in this stage, when he learns to take decisions concerning his life, not listening to what people think on this topic his relatives.   For example, you understand that you no longer want to run on the unloved work… Read more »