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Why I am not friends with customers and don't they have a manicure

Among my clients, many guys are very interesting to me as interlocutors, potential friends, I close their position in life and we have common interests. Also among them is very steep. But I can't have them learn, can't use their professional services or products. Make friends, engage hobby too.  Why? Because I know that they… Read more »

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When you're as a red rag for the environment

Sometimes other react to something in the US as the red rag: demonstrate against us irritation, fear, increased interest. Strong and extramental predominantly feelings cause surrounding desire to comment on or ridicule, hang tag, set evaluation.   In the US, this quality is not bad in itself. However, thanks to the bullfighting in childhood we… Read more »

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Not offended, but offended. Liberating post about responsibility

Today-about aerobatics psychological maturity: the responsibility for your own feelings. When we already learn to take it?   Not insulting me, and I feel a grudge when you … Not you pričinâeš′ me pain, and I feel pain when you … Not you pridaeš′ my life meaning, and I'm looking for only you Not show… Read more »

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The book is about codependency

If you believe that life or partner to you unfair, if some disappointments if very sorry for myself or you really want to help close-read this book. Or continue to suffer.

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For that we love of spouses

Popišu a bit of love, not of "the view," and psychologist from the category of "my personal musings on life", you're blogging, I want too) So, I believe that if you're not hippies and not the Dalai Lama, then love should be nebezuslovnoj to be happy. It is you the child of his or her will… Read more »

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Who fall?

To whom do we take negative emotions? Not someone who violates the boundaries, and someone who is willing to make this our barrage without negative consequences for us. With good, if on it, Liem realizing that he is not guilty. That before him, he would be better at this time tea drank or rare St.Petersberg… Read more »

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About triangles

To me the advice written by a woman, creating a love triangle. At the appointed time, it's not. Just not all: even SMS is not sent, the handset does not charge. And it is not the first, I met with a dozen such people of triangles that anybody not warn: wife-that attitude no longer arrange, mistress-that… Read more »

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Healing

The days when you had to be strong. Now you can ask for help, laugh and be mild, you can remove the body armor and mask the harshness from the face. You can not get angry and do not demand justice, you can simply ask about something, are no longer enemies. The war is over,… Read more »

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Who keeps parents us or we parents

  When you care about parents, it is important to distinguish between: -they don't really can take care of yourself and yourself believe that need your help. Or -so you depend on them emotionally, you're easier to take on the removal of any of their domestic and mental discomfort, only it is rather stopped and… Read more »

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Calm in crisis

Morning potâguški-reality, breathing loved one-reality, my body is a reality. This is something safe and gives a sense of support and joy here and now virtual world future exchange rates-what is unstable, I is not affected and that I can no longer be supported. Actually, never could. Go back to yourself, breathe, feel the body,… Read more »