We often think that think, and actually it's not thinking it's something interesting … That is considered a sign of mind? The ability to build a cause-and-effect relationships, plan lurking several moves ahead, to see other people's motives and anticipate their actions? Often our thoughts and busy. This is a very important skill and I… Read more »
To me for advice often come people who don't know what they want. Most often, they see no problem with this, and that it is difficult for them to build relationships with others: they don't know what else to do to please men/women are still help his good-for-nothing guy/son/girlfriend/friend/mother. Just for years of training it… Read more »
Psychologist on the run Run along the promenade, mentally I think: "one, two, three, four"-the two accounts on two-breath exhale, cheerful music player, comfortable beautiful sneakers, a pleasant morning frost. Run, habitually noting where in my body tension, what muscles are "blocked" from running. This professional habit of psychologists working in physically-oriented approach-to be… Read more »
Where negative feelings for parents, if you are from a happy family "Parents are not drank and was not beaten, but I still often get offended, get annoyed on trifles, I guess I'm ungrateful"-many times I heard this on consultations. Of course, here it is difficult to talk about ingratitude, because feelings are… Read more »
Often people experience unexplained anxiety or even the fear of ordinary at first glance things: to call someone on the phone, ask a favor, to go somewhere or do step in convergence with the other person. These fears often worth negative experience: ridiculed for request, rude treatment by phone, offended, dropped out. Every time… Read more »
At the time of the trauma people as would be split into parts, one part freezes to not feel the pain at the moment of maximum experience, while the other continues to function and try to somehow adjust to life. And we live: like adults, but inside of us is the part which remains… Read more »
Why is it so important to apologize to a child? I work with adults and see every day how their lives affected by childhood. In this article, I did not intend to give advice on dealing with children. But if you're curious to know how your childhood "aukaetsâ" now, what tone your parental… Read more »
How often do we see a crying person sympathetic people ask: "what happened?" and he answered: "nothing!" I'm not talking about the manipulation of the type: "nothing, but if you were to ask again, I maybe say". Today I want to talk about a situation where really NOTHING HAPPENED. Problem…. Read more »
Today I would talk about specific plants, traumas and psychological development problems faced by girls, and which make women vulnerable in adult life. Installation: "Baba,". Found in milder versions, for example, the Pope uttered with a sigh: "Oh, women!". Even if this setting does not determine attitudes towards women, but sounds of significant people… Read more »
What is a grievance? Defending himself and manipulation As a child I didn't understand the saying, "The offended water carry". It seemed to me that the offended need to spare, and not to exploit. Many adults and now hold the same opinion, and therefore remain vodovozami. Resentment corrodes from within does not give calmly… Read more »
