Illusion 1: You are unconsciously not here and now, and there and then, when Donashivali after the brother, listened to the scandals of parents because of money, ate potatoes and macaroni, and the excursion with the class did not go-expensive. Reality 1: If you didn't have a bike in your childhood, and now you have… Read more »
#навеяно_практикой Need for support. Many it ceased to be met in very early childhood, when the trees were tall, and the other was the granidioznym and omnipotent. What they feel in situations when in need of support? Correctly, small, weak and dependent. Therefore, the consultations to understand this need come through anger (need you hurt… Read more »
Grow from childhood injuries hurt. It hurts to accept refusal to meet with the fear of rejection, scared to ask embarrassing swear and fight, accept-as a sign of helplessness, letting go of hope as die meet condemnation-become a rag in the corner. Nobody makes just so. All this is possible only for the sake of… Read more »
The internal confrontation with parents of adult children is exhausted. Even if they have long understood that their lives are responsible for themselves, make decisions without thinking about mom and dad. They do differently, but under the yoke of parental disapproval, spoken or shown constantly, they be still tough. This delayed attention to permanent condition… Read more »
Failure-a great tool to get rid of constant in its toxicity people. When you ask not to do more as hurt you, and the person cannot or does not want to deal with your request. Another failure helps in a heap of different cases: when people are uninteresting, but admit it to yourself don't want… Read more »
The injury you have developed amazing skills and characteristics. People unconsciously to that you use, and you don't see anything special myself. Because in a place you have injuries severe pain and you try to avoid it, but along the way, ignore their most valuable characteristics. These skills I met the ability to determine the… Read more »
Power locked fault For the first time, the child begins to feel his personal power during the period from 2 to 4 years. In these years he throws items, "who runs forward, trying to lift heavy bags" help my mother "as well as he has shown stubbornness, loud screams, fights, bite-tries and proves, explores its… Read more »
When you care about parents, it is important to distinguish between: -they don't really can take care of yourself and yourself believe that need your help. Or -so you depend on them emotionally, you're easier to take on the removal of any of their domestic and mental discomfort, only it is rather stopped and… Read more »
Why happy love important experience clashes with ideal and disappointment? Post promised continued) in General, well when this ideal is acting Dad for girls or mom for boys aged three years. Well, when parents have enough maturity to take the emerging sexuality of the child, but be firm that implement its child better in relationships… Read more »
Disappointed and hurt in the short term unprofitable. The problem is that we become disenchanted in the other, we have to be disappointed and in itself: you're no longer the wife of the Decembrist, which follows the difficult plight of the husband and the girl, which connected their lives with psevdofilosofom and an alcoholic. You're… Read more »
