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Give him a chance to fall in love with you

Once you give him a chance to fall in love with you. Not melteshi, not run, not forsiruj event. It is slightly confused: any new feeling in the stomach. He needs to spend some time with him, he has to accept it, he needs to make sure that it is HE HIMSELF. That is not… Read more »

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Wine and provocation of aggression

Describe schema many quarrels in which one partner if "begging" the aggression of the second. One causes the real or imaginary damage other unintentionally, random misstep. Feels guilty. From the zashkalivajushhego guilt and unconscious desire to be punished, he makes involuntary their behavior demonstrative. For example, because the work began later gather at the concert… Read more »

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"He's such a vulnerable!"

Experience tells me that when someone from the spouses begins issuing a detailed analysis of the character of another, the case badly. Often this means that he needed serious justification for destructive behavior of a spouse. The "analyst" feels helpless and wants to somehow explain what other reasons he is obliged to give yourself bit… Read more »

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Responsibilities in a pair

When people cannot care for themselves, they share household responsibilities: it is him, he Pats shirt kopm cleans. And altruistically type: "Wow, all in the family" And when one does not perform such duties, the other turns out to be deprived of something very important for him. He grudges, vpadanie sacrifice, guilt manipulation. The first… Read more »

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For that we love of spouses

Popišu a bit of love, not of "the view," and psychologist from the category of "my personal musings on life", you're blogging, I want too) So, I believe that if you're not hippies and not the Dalai Lama, then love should be nebezuslovnoj to be happy. It is you the child of his or her will… Read more »

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About triangles

To me the advice written by a woman, creating a love triangle. At the appointed time, it's not. Just not all: even SMS is not sent, the handset does not charge. And it is not the first, I met with a dozen such people of triangles that anybody not warn: wife-that attitude no longer arrange, mistress-that… Read more »

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Frustration need for relationships

Why happy love important experience clashes with ideal and disappointment? Post promised continued) in General, well when this ideal is acting Dad for girls or mom for boys aged three years. Well, when parents have enough maturity to take the emerging sexuality of the child, but be firm that implement its child better in relationships… Read more »

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Why love evil?

Disappointed and hurt in the short term unprofitable. The problem is that we become disenchanted in the other, we have to be disappointed and in itself: you're no longer the wife of the Decembrist, which follows the difficult plight of the husband and the girl, which connected their lives with psevdofilosofom and an alcoholic. You're… Read more »

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The beginning of their life together: the first crises and conflicts

My relations four years, three of which I have been doing psychological counselling for couples. I know firsthand that this crisis together. This is something that all couples, but not all have enough understanding of what exactly happens to them and how to find the exit.   Often crisis accompanied by quarrels, mutual resentment and… Read more »