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Women's self esteem and masculine look. And here mum?

You crave compliments from men, looking for their recognition, obizhaeshsja on husband or boyfriend when he doesn't notice your effort in the design of appearance, stay still in the favorable perspective on photo in social networks in anticipation of enthusiastic comments, endlessly think, as even myself better, dress, slipped up, dye, curl, mustache. This desire… Read more »

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"He's such a vulnerable!"

Experience tells me that when someone from the spouses begins issuing a detailed analysis of the character of another, the case badly. Often this means that he needed serious justification for destructive behavior of a spouse. The "analyst" feels helpless and wants to somehow explain what other reasons he is obliged to give yourself bit… Read more »

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About the failure and rejection

Failure-a great tool to get rid of constant in its toxicity people. When you ask not to do more as hurt you, and the person cannot or does not want to deal with your request. Another failure helps in a heap of different cases: when people are uninteresting, but admit it to yourself don't want… Read more »

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Who's really unhappy with your body?

If you drive in Yandex two queries: "how to lose weight" and "how to have an orgasm", it turns out that the second looking at 26 times. The appearance of the body excites people more than the fun of it.  Feminists call this objectification of women (this is when women influenced by upbringing and pressure… Read more »

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For dostigatorov

Listen to be hostage to a medal easily: nosiš′sâ with its dušešipatel′noj history overcome, accept new awards from new friends, impressed by your courage and resilience, or from himself-again-bandwagon.    Painting the head in a wall, to medals as the Leonid Ilich, and next door … Discover her gently, blue, sostarivšuûsâ, and spring. Glacier in… Read more »

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Guilt and shadow: growing up tools

We know ourselves, and in many respects and not want to know. Don't want to know yourself with "disabilities": meločnost′û, ègoističnost′û, anger, envy … And the more we reject yourself-"wrong", the more these unrecognized our features (shadow) affect our behavior and well-being. Rejecting and not noticing these symptoms, we do not become white and fluffy,… Read more »

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For that we love of spouses

Popišu a bit of love, not of "the view," and psychologist from the category of "my personal musings on life", you're blogging, I want too) So, I believe that if you're not hippies and not the Dalai Lama, then love should be nebezuslovnoj to be happy. It is you the child of his or her will… Read more »

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With you everything is OK

With you everything is OK. You can be any. Yes, you obidčivaâ//boltlivaâ is an aloof/inaccurate/as kid/cranky. You don't need anyone to dissuade this price its comfort. Yes, you are. Look, the world has not collapsed. It is not important to anyone except your mom and even a couple of those who cannot choose a convenient… Read more »

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Healing

The days when you had to be strong. Now you can ask for help, laugh and be mild, you can remove the body armor and mask the harshness from the face. You can not get angry and do not demand justice, you can simply ask about something, are no longer enemies. The war is over,… Read more »

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Why love evil?

Disappointed and hurt in the short term unprofitable. The problem is that we become disenchanted in the other, we have to be disappointed and in itself: you're no longer the wife of the Decembrist, which follows the difficult plight of the husband and the girl, which connected their lives with psevdofilosofom and an alcoholic. You're… Read more »