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Did not live richly, nothing to start

When a person experiences a shock, astray his habitual protective mechanisms, ways of self-regulation. But the instinctive level, the brain of reptiles, the most ancient part of the nervous system is connected. And it gives him inhuman force and clarity. It acts in the name of saving life, it is in the energy of high… Read more »

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Read if the change scares

Fearing the future, we are not always, but are often afraid of what is happening to us now, or what happened a long time ago. How else do we know that we need to be afraid? People are afraid of moving to stay without friends and loved ones, but often actually feel alone now. Women… Read more »

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Change to not "Kosyachit"

People come to remake themselves almost completely, because they faced with some feelings that can not bear. Made a mistake at work. Collapsed for this shame so do not carry, that it is easier to hide from it behind thoughts. What? about what he butterfingers, ignorant and irresponsible. I thought it would change. He has… Read more »

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Problem: Spend all the cleanup, no matter how much you earn

Illusion 1: You are unconsciously not here and now, and there and then, when Donashivali after the brother, listened to the scandals of parents because of money, ate potatoes and macaroni, and the excursion with the class did not go-expensive. Reality 1: If you didn't have a bike in your childhood, and now you have… Read more »

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All my troubles are my fault?

Guys who probivajushhimsja in life on their own, it often seems that all depends on them and their desires, perseverance, and ambition. They tend to underestimate objective factors. Which helps them to do "impossible" in their youth, but further leads to eternal struggles and to rationalizations. They're looking for a reason in themselves, and they… Read more »

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Quality articles and "psychological content"-what's the difference?

Save time and honouring information hygiene. I have a slew of quality articles divided into several species. Popular science articles with descriptions of research, clarifying concepts and showing sources. Example: an anonymous survey participants American beauty contests showed almost a quarter of them are detected by an eating disorder. [Beauty is as beauty does: body… Read more »

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Need for support.

#навеяно_практикой Need for support. Many it ceased to be met in very early childhood, when the trees were tall, and the other was the granidioznym and omnipotent. What they feel in situations when in need of support? Correctly, small, weak and dependent. Therefore, the consultations to understand this need come through anger (need you hurt… Read more »

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The main condition for healing and growth

Grow from childhood injuries hurt. It hurts to accept refusal to meet with the fear of rejection, scared to ask embarrassing swear and fight, accept-as a sign of helplessness, letting go of hope as die meet condemnation-become a rag in the corner. Nobody makes just so. All this is possible only for the sake of… Read more »

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Price: grow out of guilt and resentment.

That rarely comes to people under 30. Everything has a price. Want to answer close "on otvali"-answer but know how much it will cost you. And if you have then wine or offense-the price was inadequate. Rasplačivaeš′sâ these feelings for inability to pay and receive the correct price. Psychological children accustomed to getting everything for… Read more »

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Women's self esteem and masculine look. And here mum?

You crave compliments from men, looking for their recognition, obizhaeshsja on husband or boyfriend when he doesn't notice your effort in the design of appearance, stay still in the favorable perspective on photo in social networks in anticipation of enthusiastic comments, endlessly think, as even myself better, dress, slipped up, dye, curl, mustache. This desire… Read more »

  • Inflâtory

      "Stay away from those people who are trying to reduce your significance. So always arrive a little people. A really great inspire you the feeling that you, too, can become great " Mark Twain, writer     Here there are such people: they pretty much all know very strictly refer to themselves, assess themselves… Read more »

  • Mum's "Forgive Me!"

      Why is it so important to apologize to a child?   I work with adults and see every day how their lives affected by childhood.  In this article, I did not intend to give advice on dealing with children.  But if you're curious to know how your childhood "aukaetsâ" now, what tone your parental… Read more »

  • Inner critic and drawing pravopolušarnoe

    Pravopolušarnoe drawing. The outcome of the   A year and a half have passed since my first drawing right-brain training. Now I understand what allowed me to help different people start drawing. This is not a special exercises, Betty Edwards not discourse on hemispheres of the brain, no! I just told people what they very… Read more »

  • That reveš′ not nobody died!

        How often do we see a crying person sympathetic people ask: "what happened?" and he answered: "nothing!"   I'm not talking about the manipulation of the type: "nothing, but if you were to ask again, I maybe say".  Today I want to talk about a situation where really NOTHING HAPPENED.     Problem…. Read more »

  • What it feels like to be a woman? Captive children's installations

    Today I would talk about specific plants, traumas and psychological development problems faced by girls, and which make women vulnerable in adult life.   Installation: "Baba,". Found in milder versions, for example, the Pope uttered with a sigh: "Oh, women!". Even if this setting does not determine attitudes towards women, but sounds of significant people… Read more »

  • What is a grievance?

    What is a grievance? Defending himself and manipulation   As a child I didn't understand the saying, "The offended water carry". It seemed to me that the offended need to spare, and not to exploit. Many adults and now hold the same opinion, and therefore remain vodovozami. Resentment corrodes from within does not give calmly… Read more »

  • The language of feelings, confidence and productivity

      From the practice. -What do you feel? -I think …   A young man remembers the advice: "as a child I bother her mom with the same question:" but everything will be fine? "she answered first:" Yes ", and then got mad and said," stop bothering me. Somehow I still worried and that all… Read more »

  • Proud and lonely

    If I call themselves is interesting to them Oh, those night talks! How much you can change your mind and perečuvstvovat′ in these long hours! The result of one of these conversations and became this annotation.   "Let them call themselves"-think we call friends, loved ones. "Let him fit"-we say to yourself after the conflict…. Read more »

  • Pravopolušarnoe drawing

    "I don't know, I CAN'T DRAW!" I say participants at the beginning of the day, and then, ošarašennye, they carry home what I want to show you. Pictures that people write on my training often surprise even me-so they are original and beautiful in its own way. I know how it happens, I know how… Read more »

  • Check Editor

    Have you come across with the feeling that during intercourse man crushes on you, manipulate, and you're doing everything the way you want it, forgetting about their interests? I think, many stayed in such a situation. This is the most striking example of violation of personality psychological borders, on which I would like to talk… Read more »