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All my troubles are my fault?

Guys who probivajushhimsja in life on their own, it often seems that all depends on them and their desires, perseverance, and ambition. They tend to underestimate objective factors. Which helps them to do "impossible" in their youth, but further leads to eternal struggles and to rationalizations. They're looking for a reason in themselves, and they… Read more »

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Quality articles and "psychological content"-what's the difference?

Save time and honouring information hygiene. I have a slew of quality articles divided into several species. Popular science articles with descriptions of research, clarifying concepts and showing sources. Example: an anonymous survey participants American beauty contests showed almost a quarter of them are detected by an eating disorder. [Beauty is as beauty does: body… Read more »

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Need for support.

#навеяно_практикой Need for support. Many it ceased to be met in very early childhood, when the trees were tall, and the other was the granidioznym and omnipotent. What they feel in situations when in need of support? Correctly, small, weak and dependent. Therefore, the consultations to understand this need come through anger (need you hurt… Read more »

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The main condition for healing and growth

Grow from childhood injuries hurt. It hurts to accept refusal to meet with the fear of rejection, scared to ask embarrassing swear and fight, accept-as a sign of helplessness, letting go of hope as die meet condemnation-become a rag in the corner. Nobody makes just so. All this is possible only for the sake of… Read more »

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Price: grow out of guilt and resentment.

That rarely comes to people under 30. Everything has a price. Want to answer close "on otvali"-answer but know how much it will cost you. And if you have then wine or offense-the price was inadequate. Rasplačivaeš′sâ these feelings for inability to pay and receive the correct price. Psychological children accustomed to getting everything for… Read more »

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Women's self esteem and masculine look. And here mum?

You crave compliments from men, looking for their recognition, obizhaeshsja on husband or boyfriend when he doesn't notice your effort in the design of appearance, stay still in the favorable perspective on photo in social networks in anticipation of enthusiastic comments, endlessly think, as even myself better, dress, slipped up, dye, curl, mustache. This desire… Read more »

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Give him a chance to fall in love with you

Once you give him a chance to fall in love with you. Not melteshi, not run, not forsiruj event. It is slightly confused: any new feeling in the stomach. He needs to spend some time with him, he has to accept it, he needs to make sure that it is HE HIMSELF. That is not… Read more »

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Live as I want

Why are you still not doing what I want and live not in the way I want to?   As well, quickly threw the Office went to travel, earning online, describing everything in via instagram! Nu-Ka nakachala urgently priest, took up yoga, weigh 40 kg, otrastila spit to the waist, gave birth to 5 children… Read more »

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Find or what is wrong with your surroundings?

Imagine you are standing in front of the mirror, and see your reflection everywhere very clearly, but here's one piece of mirror zamutnen. And no matter how you kept circling in front of the mirror, this part of my reflection does not see. What feelings would arise? Irritation? "Foolish mirror cannot show me holistically!" anxiety?… Read more »

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Needless to say with a friend about his grudge

Needless to say a friend that his behavior hurt you? What if you're wrong, and take offense at this wrong? You have a right to your feelings, including discomfort from prying action. Recognize that it is Your discomfort may be associated with the actions of another, but no result. For example, a teacher at the… Read more »

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    My relations four years, three of which I have been doing psychological counselling for couples. I know firsthand that this crisis together. This is something that all couples, but not all have enough understanding of what exactly happens to them and how to find the exit.   Often crisis accompanied by quarrels, mutual resentment and… Read more »

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  • When mom annoying 2

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  • When mom is annoying

    Take the mother the right to dispose of your life   There are human psychological development in this stage, when he learns to take decisions concerning his life, not listening to what people think on this topic his relatives.   For example, you understand that you no longer want to run on the unloved work… Read more »

  • About psychological trauma

      At the time of the trauma people as would be split into parts, one part freezes to not feel the pain at the moment of maximum experience, while the other continues to function and try to somehow adjust to life. And we live: like adults, but inside of us is the part which remains… Read more »

  • Helplessness adults

    Often people experience unexplained anxiety or even the fear of ordinary at first glance things: to call someone on the phone, ask a favor, to go somewhere or do step in convergence with the other person.  These fears often worth negative experience: ridiculed for request, rude treatment by phone, offended, dropped out.   Every time… Read more »

  • Inflâtory

      "Stay away from those people who are trying to reduce your significance. So always arrive a little people. A really great inspire you the feeling that you, too, can become great " Mark Twain, writer     Here there are such people: they pretty much all know very strictly refer to themselves, assess themselves… Read more »

  • Mum's "Forgive Me!"

      Why is it so important to apologize to a child?   I work with adults and see every day how their lives affected by childhood.  In this article, I did not intend to give advice on dealing with children.  But if you're curious to know how your childhood "aukaetsâ" now, what tone your parental… Read more »

  • Inner critic and drawing pravopolušarnoe

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  • That reveš′ not nobody died!

        How often do we see a crying person sympathetic people ask: "what happened?" and he answered: "nothing!"   I'm not talking about the manipulation of the type: "nothing, but if you were to ask again, I maybe say".  Today I want to talk about a situation where really NOTHING HAPPENED.     Problem…. Read more »