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Live as I want

Why are you still not doing what I want and live not in the way I want to?   As well, quickly threw the Office went to travel, earning online, describing everything in via instagram! Nu-Ka nakachala urgently priest, took up yoga, weigh 40 kg, otrastila spit to the waist, gave birth to 5 children… Read more »

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Find or what is wrong with your surroundings?

Imagine you are standing in front of the mirror, and see your reflection everywhere very clearly, but here's one piece of mirror zamutnen. And no matter how you kept circling in front of the mirror, this part of my reflection does not see. What feelings would arise? Irritation? "Foolish mirror cannot show me holistically!" anxiety?… Read more »

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Needless to say with a friend about his grudge

Needless to say a friend that his behavior hurt you? What if you're wrong, and take offense at this wrong? You have a right to your feelings, including discomfort from prying action. Recognize that it is Your discomfort may be associated with the actions of another, but no result. For example, a teacher at the… Read more »

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Wine and provocation of aggression

Describe schema many quarrels in which one partner if "begging" the aggression of the second. One causes the real or imaginary damage other unintentionally, random misstep. Feels guilty. From the zashkalivajushhego guilt and unconscious desire to be punished, he makes involuntary their behavior demonstrative. For example, because the work began later gather at the concert… Read more »

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When parents are unhappy with

The internal confrontation with parents of adult children is exhausted. Even if they have long understood that their lives are responsible for themselves, make decisions without thinking about mom and dad. They do differently, but under the yoke of parental disapproval, spoken or shown constantly, they be still tough. This delayed attention to permanent condition… Read more »

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Clever but unrealized. How to be?

That prevents people with high intelligence realize their full potential? Often see the same mechanism that now describe. It's a wise child gets approval and praise for their thoughts. If he has little feeling that it is valuable in itself and enjoy significant adults and in its other manifestations, he clings to his intellect as… Read more »

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The aggression of the elderly

The elderly accuse offended accuse. Elders condemn, lecture, manipulated. Old people burn out anger and demonstrations of eerie nature. Old people just don't know what to do with anger and despair on what their body loses opportunities and health, that they are less aware society. Old people are mad at his old age and feebleness,… Read more »

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"He's such a vulnerable!"

Experience tells me that when someone from the spouses begins issuing a detailed analysis of the character of another, the case badly. Often this means that he needed serious justification for destructive behavior of a spouse. The "analyst" feels helpless and wants to somehow explain what other reasons he is obliged to give yourself bit… Read more »

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Part 3. About anger, from which you can get rid of

There is another special mechanism of anger, inadequate situation-screwing on yourself. This argument when we go so far as to begin to get angry. And this disc can twist eternally! Sometimes we twist it out of habit, sometimes because the real cause of the anger cannot recognize, she sits deep inside and pushes at the… Read more »

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Part 2. About anger and redemption destroying relationships

Part 2 Anger happens when situational infringed your interests have been violated by the psychological border. It also occurs when we are prevented from doing what we have begun. These are two natural mechanism, they are all peoples of the world. Scientist Paul Ekman fact witness. In these two cases, the anger is adequate to… Read more »

  • From zero to plus: overcome fear of pleasure

    Led I Pravopolušarnoe three years taught drawing, see people invent reality, not her. Domyslennuû portray hard it vague. As seen already easier trick. Psychotherapy often stumble on something that the customer does not see and does not want to see what will bring him good and wants to hold on to their perception that for… Read more »

  • Is there life after dostigatorstva

    Success as compensation for lost love ceases to motivate when people learned to love himself.  And then there are two ways: to score this or use the most success in the pursuit of it skills for what you really want.  For example, to make as much money as you want to grow in an interesting… Read more »

  • Why I am not friends with customers and don't they have a manicure

    Among my clients, many guys are very interesting to me as interlocutors, potential friends, I close their position in life and we have common interests. Also among them is very steep. But I can't have them learn, can't use their professional services or products. Make friends, engage hobby too.  Why? Because I know that they… Read more »

  • Who's really unhappy with your body?

    If you drive in Yandex two queries: "how to lose weight" and "how to have an orgasm", it turns out that the second looking at 26 times. The appearance of the body excites people more than the fun of it.  Feminists call this objectification of women (this is when women influenced by upbringing and pressure… Read more »

  • Compensate for the lack of a father

    When I started to post on his page ideal sire messages under the tag #твой_внутренний_папа, I met a lot of misunderstanding.   "Why is that?" "What, mom can not give it all?" "As I have with my dad, everything is fine." "This should give the husband rather than Pope" And have had a lot of… Read more »

  • When you're as a red rag for the environment

    Sometimes other react to something in the US as the red rag: demonstrate against us irritation, fear, increased interest. Strong and extramental predominantly feelings cause surrounding desire to comment on or ridicule, hang tag, set evaluation.   In the US, this quality is not bad in itself. However, thanks to the bullfighting in childhood we… Read more »

  • Psychosomatics: push off from the bottom

    Disease-bottom, from which we start. And do it only if you scary. Then we can only grow: take responsibility, recognize the feelings, repressed desires.   Until then, we're playing a game: will obstinately and childish demand attention/relaxing/compassion/acceptance through an illness until she will recall the death of individually with terrible symptoms.   I cough scares,… Read more »

  • Not offended, but offended. Liberating post about responsibility

    Today-about aerobatics psychological maturity: the responsibility for your own feelings. When we already learn to take it?   Not insulting me, and I feel a grudge when you … Not you pričinâeš′ me pain, and I feel pain when you … Not you pridaeš′ my life meaning, and I'm looking for only you Not show… Read more »

  • Tales about the power of 2 

    Power locked fault For the first time, the child begins to feel his personal power during the period from 2 to 4 years. In these years he throws items, "who runs forward, trying to lift heavy bags" help my mother "as well as he has shown stubbornness, loud screams, fights, bite-tries and proves, explores its… Read more »

  • So, Pms. Psychological causes

    Once a month you think you ought pink glasses and saw that you have serious reasons for the tribulation and primarily-nobody likes. Especially He.  Actually, you have sharply decreased levels of the hormone progesterone, which intensively devote your body if the pregnancy will be held this month.  This hormone prevents uterine contractions, lest a miscarriage,… Read more »