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Live as I want

Why are you still not doing what I want and live not in the way I want to?   As well, quickly threw the Office went to travel, earning online, describing everything in via instagram! Nu-Ka nakachala urgently priest, took up yoga, weigh 40 kg, otrastila spit to the waist, gave birth to 5 children… Read more »

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Find or what is wrong with your surroundings?

Imagine you are standing in front of the mirror, and see your reflection everywhere very clearly, but here's one piece of mirror zamutnen. And no matter how you kept circling in front of the mirror, this part of my reflection does not see. What feelings would arise? Irritation? "Foolish mirror cannot show me holistically!" anxiety?… Read more »

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Needless to say with a friend about his grudge

Needless to say a friend that his behavior hurt you? What if you're wrong, and take offense at this wrong? You have a right to your feelings, including discomfort from prying action. Recognize that it is Your discomfort may be associated with the actions of another, but no result. For example, a teacher at the… Read more »

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Wine and provocation of aggression

Describe schema many quarrels in which one partner if "begging" the aggression of the second. One causes the real or imaginary damage other unintentionally, random misstep. Feels guilty. From the zashkalivajushhego guilt and unconscious desire to be punished, he makes involuntary their behavior demonstrative. For example, because the work began later gather at the concert… Read more »

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When parents are unhappy with

The internal confrontation with parents of adult children is exhausted. Even if they have long understood that their lives are responsible for themselves, make decisions without thinking about mom and dad. They do differently, but under the yoke of parental disapproval, spoken or shown constantly, they be still tough. This delayed attention to permanent condition… Read more »

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Clever but unrealized. How to be?

That prevents people with high intelligence realize their full potential? Often see the same mechanism that now describe. It's a wise child gets approval and praise for their thoughts. If he has little feeling that it is valuable in itself and enjoy significant adults and in its other manifestations, he clings to his intellect as… Read more »

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The aggression of the elderly

The elderly accuse offended accuse. Elders condemn, lecture, manipulated. Old people burn out anger and demonstrations of eerie nature. Old people just don't know what to do with anger and despair on what their body loses opportunities and health, that they are less aware society. Old people are mad at his old age and feebleness,… Read more »

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"He's such a vulnerable!"

Experience tells me that when someone from the spouses begins issuing a detailed analysis of the character of another, the case badly. Often this means that he needed serious justification for destructive behavior of a spouse. The "analyst" feels helpless and wants to somehow explain what other reasons he is obliged to give yourself bit… Read more »

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Part 3. About anger, from which you can get rid of

There is another special mechanism of anger, inadequate situation-screwing on yourself. This argument when we go so far as to begin to get angry. And this disc can twist eternally! Sometimes we twist it out of habit, sometimes because the real cause of the anger cannot recognize, she sits deep inside and pushes at the… Read more »

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Part 2. About anger and redemption destroying relationships

Part 2 Anger happens when situational infringed your interests have been violated by the psychological border. It also occurs when we are prevented from doing what we have begun. These are two natural mechanism, they are all peoples of the world. Scientist Paul Ekman fact witness. In these two cases, the anger is adequate to… Read more »

  • All about sex, except sex

    In life everything about sex, except the sex … And the sex Pro what? Often about power or submissive, force or powerlessness, about the existence, satisfaction with different, not always sexual needs. "Have sex and feel that I am, I exist", "partner giving me affection and care that I need", "I like to feel her… Read more »

  • For dostigatorov

    Listen to be hostage to a medal easily: nosiš′sâ with its dušešipatel′noj history overcome, accept new awards from new friends, impressed by your courage and resilience, or from himself-again-bandwagon.    Painting the head in a wall, to medals as the Leonid Ilich, and next door … Discover her gently, blue, sostarivšuûsâ, and spring. Glacier in… Read more »

  • Guilt and shadow: growing up tools

    We know ourselves, and in many respects and not want to know. Don't want to know yourself with "disabilities": meločnost′û, ègoističnost′û, anger, envy … And the more we reject yourself-"wrong", the more these unrecognized our features (shadow) affect our behavior and well-being. Rejecting and not noticing these symptoms, we do not become white and fluffy,… Read more »

  • That in itself doesn't want to notice

    "We endlessly criticize Stalin, and, of course, for the cause. And I still want to ask — who wrote a four million person? "s. Dovlatov each of us has those qualities, feelings, actions, which we so don't want to recognize that and often do not notice in myself, but clearly see them in others and… Read more »

  • Money and calling

    "In my picture of the world, there are two ways to find the money in the world: by demonstrating his life and through the sale of his life. The first way is difficult, the second common throughout. In the first case, the soul wakes second falls asleep. In the first case, the person is recovering,… Read more »

  • My yoga every morning

    It's been a year I begin each morning with morning sun greeting complex "Surya Namaskara". Today I want to share with you 4 major changes with me, thanks to yoga) 1. I became more organized. With my free schedule is very convenient to wake up hours of 10 am and mooch around the House, when… Read more »

  • Plastic trash

    What is the footprint I leave on Earth? The simplest solution of existential issues I have looks like this: 1) will buy myself a nice easy flask 2) leave application for installation in my yard containers for plastic on KrasivyjPeterburg.) 3) share informative presentation about drinking water in plastic bottles to =

  • Fulfillment of desires

    Method of treatment of their desires is laid under the age of 8 months, and then we follow the selected modes of life, not realizing, betraying or incarnating your desires. Come for the understanding and change their ways!

  • Meeting with awesome man

    Today on my lecture came an amazing woman. Her 81 year, she survived the siege, losing loved ones and once in the orphanage, asked about creativity Tsvetaeva, backpacking, still walks in the mountains, raised three children and it is now interested in questions of creative self-expression, so she came to the lecture-"work with your inner critic"…. Read more »

  • Needs and dignity

    In the body of a lot of dignity. The body does not hesitate, it meet their needs or not, it just shuts down, if you don't put down to sleep. We refused from their desires, by habit, simply because "it is a wrong holopu in Manor walk", not even udosuživaâs′ check the rationality of such… Read more »